Reverse Kegels for Men: How Pelvic Floor Relaxation Works

After a long day of sitting, the pelvic area may feel unsettled. If you respond by squeezing harder, the body may brace itself instead of relaxing. The pelvic floor needs not only contraction but also time to release with the breath.

Pelvic Floor Relaxation (Reverse Kegels)

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Left: sit comfortably. Right: let the blue-highlighted area rest for 5 minutes while breathing normally. Do not push down.

Do not turn tension into a diagnosis

A Urology Care Foundation leaflet describes breathing and attention to muscle sensation as ways to practice relaxing the pelvic floor. This is not a test that tells you “your pelvic floor is overactive.” Pelvic pain and urinary symptoms can have other causes (Urology Care Foundation, 2022).

The NIDDK also explains that sexual-function problems may involve psychological strain, medication, vascular and nerve conditions, and lifestyle. Feeling tense does not mean that pelvic-floor strengthening alone is the answer (NIDDK, 2024).

Track relaxed pelvic-floor time

Lie on your back or sit with back support. Soften your jaw, shoulders, and abdomen. Breathe in comfortably through your nose and make the exhale a little longer. Rather than pressing the pelvic floor downward, wait for the feeling of inner tension to let go. Do not hold your breath or strain.

After five minutes, record whether you feel more comfortable, the same, or tighter than before. Do not turn a lower number into the goal; that can hurry the body’s response. If nothing changes, record the result with sleep, sitting time, and stress instead of judging it as failure.

How to do Pelvic-Floor Relaxation

Lie on your back or sit with back support. Let your jaw, shoulders, abdomen, buttocks, and inner thighs soften, and keep breathing naturally without counting or forcing each breath. This is not a contraction exercise; notice whether the pelvic floor can let go along with your breathing. Do not push it downward or bear down as if having a bowel movement to try to “relax” it. There is no need to stretch the muscles to the point of pain. Rest for 5 minutes without adding a contraction, then record only the time you actually rested.

Holding your breath or tightening your abdomen, buttocks, or thighs can make it harder to let the pelvic floor rest. If your breathing becomes strained, you feel downward pressure, or pain appears, make the position more comfortable or stop. This is a recovery practice, not a separate breathing exercise and not a reason to push through discomfort. Stop if numbness or urinary symptoms appear as well.

Balancing Contraction Days and Rest Days for Optimal Recovery

Record whether tension felt different after Pelvic Floor Basic or breathing felt easier after Pelvic Floor Relaxation (Reverse Kegels) under the same date. Adding more exercises does not always add more information. Separating contraction, release, and rest makes it easier to see which action was present when the sensation changed.

For example, compare a day with five minutes of relaxed pelvic-floor rest after desk work with a day when you hurried through a strong squeeze. Add the next morning’s condition and sleep so that the evening sensation does not become the only measure.

See a professional when there is pain

Contact a healthcare professional instead of continuing self-directed release for pelvic pain, pain with ejaculation, painful urination or inability to urinate, blood in the urine, fever, or symptoms after injury or surgery. Do the same if symptoms are severe, getting worse, or interfering with life.

This Routine is not treatment. Do not endure pain or push through it to “fix” tension; keep information that can help with a consultation.

Find your response over 14 days

Try the Pelvic Floor Relaxation (Reverse Kegels) routine once and record the before-and-after sensation, sleep, stress, and sitting time. Choose it from the Routine Finder and compare contraction days with rest days in BananaUp’s 14-day tracking. If needed, seek professional assessment before interpreting the article or the log.

Is a reverse Kegel a separate routine?

BananaUp combines Reverse Kegels with Pelvic Floor Relaxation. The name does not introduce an extra contraction: soften the shoulders and abdomen, breathe naturally and let the pelvic floor rest without squeezing. Do not push down or strain as though passing a bowel movement.

If you rested comfortably in a chair for five minutes, log that time once under Pelvic Floor Relaxation. There is no need to count the same minutes again as reverse Kegels. If you cannot notice release today, rest rather than pushing harder to produce a sensation.